SELF LOVE ♡♡
Today, I got a chance to step up and write what self love means. And, I am thankful to dailydaisy for this opportunity.
What is self love? I was not aware of this phrase in my childhood. I never liked myself for who I was. I wasn't a bright student like my sisters and I never liked the colour of my skin. I was somewhat tan than the other family members and I hated it.
We all face these things in our life and I want to tell you that if you feel like you are alone, No, you definitely are not. We all are with you. You are not alone in this battlefield. Whatever the world told you, whatever rules it has, it's not important.
I always thought low of me. Always considered me an outcast. I always thought that my family secretly despises me for being somewhat different than them.
I ways watched those barbie movies in which there were white, beautiful, without glassess Barbies. I always wanted to be white too. My basic goal at that time was to shed the skin I had and have a pure white one. I was too stupid to understand that "your most loyal kin, is your skin."
Yes. It is indeed true. I never hesitate to tell the world who I was and who am I. Because, I have accepted myself for being the way I am. I don’t want to change even a bit of it. My skin colour is a bit tan, so what? I OWN IT AND YOU SHOULD TOO. I love the freckles that I have. I don’t wish to change the way I look. I don’t think my eye squint as a hindrance in anything. When Harry Potter can rock in the Glasses why can’t I? My mother was the biggest support in pulling me out of this complex. And I love her the most for that. My inspiration is ZENDAYA. The Queen, who always told people to look up and never down.The one who never hated herself for her skin colour and she never gives the right of hating her, to others.
Nothing. I repeat, Nothing can stop you if you believe in yourself. Just start accepting yourself for who you are. Shut all these jerks up who think that white skin is the best of being slim is the key to be loved. Because, it's not.
This wolrd likes this and this and this but, what do you want? What is your liking? Just look at yourself first. Put yourself first. Love yourself first. Remember, always remmeber that YOUR MOST LOYAL KIN IS YOUR SKIN